Kestral: Not knowing you, I don't know where you are staying or often stay? This does make quite a difference in relationships with hosts.
#1.. Find him or her and introbuce yourself..
#2.. Ask questions that you need to know. explain amount of play that is expected, as you don't have a play record??
#3.. Touch base with the host if possible during your stay...get to know them! Them to know you!
#4.. Correct, don't worry about a gift on your first trip...If what is done for you, maybe next time down?
.....Often times, at many places a host will look you up..especially if your friend is putting in a good word for you...
